Sunday, October 21, 2018

Quoth the Raven....

Today's post is not about Edgar Allen Poe and his famous Raven, but rather about a conspiracy of ravens and the man who watches over them.  The man is Christopher Skaife, Yeoman Warder of Her Majesty's Royal Palace and Fortress The Tower of London, and he has one of the most unique and, quite frankly, amazing jobs that exist.  He is the Ravenmaster of the Tower of London and his charges are the seven ravens who call the  Tower their home.

Legends say that if the ravens leave the Tower, the Tower will crumble and the throne of Britain with it, so the birds are permanent residents of the fortress.  Where this legend came of is unclear as Skaife tells readers in one chapter of his book, but they began their tenure at Tower in the late 1800's.  The Ravenmaster: My Life With the Ravens at the Tower of London is a mixture of Skaife's day as a Yeoman Warder with tours, a day in the life of caring for the Ravens, a history lesson, and a mini biography of the man himself, and it was a quick and very interesting read for me.  I would have read a book twice as long with no complaining.

Skaife's day starts by feeding, watering, caring for and releasing the Ravens, of which their are seven.  In the book, he introduces us to Munin, Merlina, Erin, Rocky, Jubilee II, Gripp II, and Harris, but not included in the book is Raven Poppy, who joined the Tower in May 2018 as a six week old bird.  It makes sense that the book does not include Poppy--it was published in October of this year and therefore would have been at the publishers before Poppy's introduction. 

As he goes about his day, Skaife tells of Merlina's tricksy nature, Munin's black widow nature and crazy adventures, how to care for the birds, how to become a Yeoman Warder (to start you need 22 years of good service in Her Majesty's military, so I'm out.  Drat), some of the typical questions Yeoman Warders' get asked (HINT:  DO NOT ask for the bathroom.  Ask for the toilet.  It's not rude and you'll save some embarrassment.  Speaking from real life experience, not just the book), and funny stories of day to day life. 

Finally, he calls the birds in to bed, one by one, pair by pair, until everyone is settled for the night.  Merlina stays high on the Tower walls, watching over it all.

I've had my own run ins with the Tower ravens, and I've added a couple of those pictures here.  It's Merlina, I think, hanging out with one of the others.  I'm not sure who.  But when I visited in December 2013, I had a fabulous time and I was asking a few questions of one of the Warders--I'm not sure who.  For all I know, it was the Ravenmaster himself. 

I've also included one of my all-time favorite pictures from my semester abroad in my favorite city in the world.

Thursday, October 4, 2018

Wallis and Diana

Well, I took a bit of a break there, but I'm really glad to come back to you all with this book here!  You may or may not know, but I am a huge history freak.  I love English and British history (there's a difference), and I'm definitely a monarchist.  My undergraduate thesis, which I want to rewrite because I know that I can do better, was about the power of Queen Elizabeth's ladies in waiting and my master's thesis on American women who married into the British aristocracy and how that changed the makeup of England's upper class.  So I like to think I'm fairly knowledgeable about the subject.

However, I've never found Wallis Simpson or Diana, Princess of Wales to be incredibly sympathetic characters.  That's not to say I don't feel for either of them and their struggles, but, especially in Diana's case, I feel like there's a cult that's risen up around them where we can't say anything bad.  Gill Paul's book, Another Woman's Husband, made me more sympathetic and more interested in learning the full extent of their stories.

I was five years old when Princess Diana was killed in a car accident in Paris.  I remember it,
actually, the news coverage constantly playing on the TV in my grandmother's kitchen, and maybe that is when I formed my opinions of Diana, because my Gran thought she was a spoiled child who couldn't buck up.  I understand more now.  But it is the fateful night of August 31, 1997 that is the opening event of the book.  Rachel and Alex are newly engaged.  Alex is a news reporter and Rachel owns a boutique store with authentic period pieces from the 1920s and 30s back home in England.  They are driving through Paris when their taxi pulls over.  There's been a car accident in the Alma Tunnel just in front of them.  Rachel is disgusted by the paparazzi taking pictures and videos of the event as Alex rushes forward to help how he can, even if it's just to translate.  This is how they learn that the car contained Princess Diana and her boyfriend, Dodi Fayed, with their driver and Diana's bodyguard.  Alex finds a bracelet at the scene with a heart locket, engraved on one side with a "J" and a "17" on the other.  As the weeks unfurl, Alex is determined to make a video documentary about the crash, the many conspiracy theories, and who he thinks is responsible.  Rachel is less enthusiastic because she was disgusted with the lack of humanity as a woman lay dying.  Reporters were taking photos rather than trying to help her.  She's dealing with a break in at her shop too, where a good amount of her difficult to replace stock was stolen.  As she's replacing her stock, she is confronted with the mystery of the bracelet, which it seems Diana found or was given at Villa Windsor, the Paris home of the Duke and Duchess of Windsor--The former King, Edward VII and Wallis Simpson.  As Rachel goes about replacing her stock, planning her wedding, and trying to figure out the mystery of the bracelet, she finds more and more pieces of Wallis' life.


Rachel and Alex's story is not the only story in the book. Juxtaposed against them is Mary Kirk, who was once a good friend, if not the best friend, of Wallis from when she was still Bessiewallis Warfield (Wallis is pictured to the left and Mary to the right).  They met at a summer camp for girls,and went to the same finishing school, but Mary reveals a Wallis who, although she acted confident, was not.  Mary's Wallis constantly felt the need to marry someone with more money or more standing so that she could feel secure.  Wallis' first marriage was to Earl Spencer, a Navy Airman who was a drunk.  The book also implies that he was abusive, which would make the already-flighty Wallis nervous.  They divorced in 1927.  Mary was married during the period of Wallis' first marriage, to a man named Jacques Raffray, a French airman.  It was through Mary and Jacques that Wallis met her second husband, Ernest Simpson, a British shipping magnate.  Mary is jealous of their relationship, for she had come to find a bosom companion in Ernest.  Mary's first marriage proved to be as sad as Wallis' for Jacques was also a drinker, likely due to what he saw as a French airman in World War I.  They eventually separated, at which point Mary and Ernest began a relationship in London, ruining Mary's friendship with Wallis

Ernest was put under great pressure not to divorce Wallis during the abdication crisis, but he eventually did.  He gave her the grounds of adultery by taking Mary to a hotel publicly and staying the night with her.  Ernest and Mary married six months after his divorce was finalized, but only three weeks after hers was.  They went on to have one child, a little boy.  Mary never lived to see an October 4, 1941, letter written by Wallis. Rachel found the letter in an outfit that Wallis had worn, saying that she wanted to bury the hatchet and be friends again, but Mary had died two days before the letter was dated of breast cancer. 

Love is a very strong central theme in this books, but not only the love between couples.  Every romantic relationship in this book is strained or breaks at some point, but the bond between friends and family remains strong.  Although Mary and Wallis, for instance, fight and don't speak for the last part of Mary's life, it doesn't mean that they didn't love each other and perhaps, with more time and after the war, they may have reconciled, as people who have been friends and surrogate siblings to each other often do.  I also loved the attention to historical detail, and I learned a lot of small details through this book.  There are clothing designers, as an example, who keep detailed records of all of their clients wardrobe choices and measurements.  I know for someone as internationally important as Wallis Simpson, this may have been to preserve the history, but it seems more like something they did for all of their clients.

I really enjoyed this book, and I'm about to start a reread so that I can catch anything I might have missed.  It's opened my eyes a bit more to two figures--Wallis and Diana, even though we only know Diana through her death and the aftermath--that I had previously dismissed.  It's also a great story, full of drama that will keep you turning to the next page.

I also got caught up in the title, although I didn't realize it for the longest time!  It's actually Another Woman's Husband, which makes perfect sense with Mary's relationship with Ernest (And the fact that Ernest was married to another woman before Wallis, and divorced her to be with Wallis), but my brain was thinking in term's of Wallis, and the idea of her constantly being another man's wife!  Either way, I loved the title, and it fit so perfectly with the book.

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